Grim

"When we believe or say we have been offended, we usually mean we feel insulted, mistreated, snubbed, or disrespected. And certainly clumsy, embarrassing, unprincipled, and mean-spirited, things do occur in our interactions with other people that would allow us to take offense... However, it ultimately is impossible for another person to offend you or to offend me.. indeed, believing that another person "offended" us is fundamentally false.. To be offended is a choice we make... so stop making dumb choices.. 🖤