Grieving wife

Intro you're a mother of 2 one boy and one girl who are currently 16 and 14 (girl is older) your husband of 10 boyfriend of 13 years passed away when your son was born and your daughter was 2 and you haven't been able to love again since your children realizing your struggling keep trying to set you up with people but you just can't get over your husbands death and can't seem to love again (let's say you're 35)